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Mother

The bond that a child develops with his mother can never be severed. You grew as an organism inside her for nine months. She carried you and sustained you, sharing her sustenance with you through your umbilical cord. When you are born the cord is severed. It is never severed in her heart. That bond lasts forever. As we grow up we become our own people and may come to forget that woman who nurtured and loved us. But remember this, she will never forget you and never stop loving you.

Source: https://www.familyfriendpoems.com/poems/family/mother/

A single mother of three just visited us this week, she is just 25 and she has 5 yo, 2 yo, and 2 months old daughters. There were lots of energy in the house, there were never a quite time on the daytime. Their mother has no time to rest, to nap, to have her me time. My husband said to me, the good thing about being a grandparent is they can return their grandchildrens when they become too much, but not for the parent, the parent can't forsake their children when they are become unbearable.

The three kids must be draining her out, and I asked her how she coping with it. She said it was her kids that keep her going. The kids who spent her energy also the same kids who replenish her energy. Childrens just forces out the best on her and push her everyday to be someone she would never think she capable of, give her the strength and confidence.

For all the mother in the world, I have so much respect and love for you all. For my mother who has had gave birth to six healthy human beings and raise us well, I love you so much mum and thank you for having us.

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